Henry has always provided for Annette and tries to give her money whenever she asks, pays her bills, rent and even makes sure to do some shopping for her parents every time he gets paid.
However, he was very surprised about her behavior this time round when he couldn’t shop for her parents and pay her rent on time because he incurred some loses at work. So he is wondering if this girl is just after the things he can offer or is it just because she is worried that he is changing and just doesn’t believe his work problems. Poor Henry, for a relationship that has lasted only nine months, he deserves some support and love not “Kamanyiro” from the person he has been spending all his money on. If you are equally suspicious that your partner might be dating your wallet instead of you, these five signs should help you get rid of a gold digger.
1 She throws tantrums when you don’t buy expensive things
If your partner gets mad at you whenever you fail to deliver on a financial promise or to buy her expensive things, there is a problem. She only wants the things you can provide and not you really. Someone who loves you tries to understand why you can’t fulfill the promise. Besides, the things that make them so angry, they also can’t afford buying for themselves, so clearly you are the bank to them.
2 She encourages you to spend extravagantly
someone who loves you genuinely and cares about you and your future together encourages you to invest and save. But if someone who claims to love you only pushes you to waste money and unnecessarily show off, you are in trouble. It’s time to smell the coffee.
3 All her exes are rich
If in your partner’s dating history you can only see rich men or people who could give her the life she wants and expects you to give her, wake up! Clearly she has made dating loaded men her way of survival and the moment your financial status seems to be going down, she won’t go down with you, she will jump to the next big spender.
4 Try acting broke
Yes this time Henry is genuinely broke and that’s the problem. He is only realising that his partner might be using him at a time when he needs her most. It’s good to test your partner to be sure of what you are dealing with. So before trouble kicks in, try acting broke and unable to do certain things for her just to see her reaction. If she becomes mean and distant, let her go. What more proof do you need? The earlier you run the better.
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